What motivate me?

Getting motivated as the person who I am, is a better recognition of my abilities which leads the company that I’m working on, to give me responsible jobs, a good money package and a better respect in the company motivates me the most. By my own achievements, to achieve new milestones in my career keeps striving for better and better performance.....this is the case at least with me

I get motivated by fear and desire.

Let your obvious dissatisfaction and unhappiness is your source of motivation.

Just make a change, take a risk! You have one chance at this life, what are you waiting for?? Only boring people get bored and uncreative people find nothing to do. Life is art and you're incredibly dull. Exercise your whims or take up drugs and have an adventure. STOP making excuses. It’s never that serious.

The fact that I don't know what the day has in store for me motivates me to get out of bed. You never know who you will meet or what you'll see. If I'm going to go somewhere, I take my time getting dressed and ready. That's part of the excitement I think. Because where ever I end up, I want to look really good! You'd be surprised at the number of heads you turn and the things you can get for free while out ;). Those little looks here and there really do wonders for your self esteem and then you start to have more fun as the day goes than you start get motivated

Write a list: the 10 most unexpected consequences of being online

The most thing that makes me being on without expected it, its when I need to apologize to someone see my apology It might not mean much to you but for what its worth I truly am sorry for always breaking your heart its truly not what I wanted I know you heard it all before, but please forgive me I’m willing to give it my all for us to be like before I Love You. When I need to Connect and share my feelings with others

I’m tired of being ignored by everyone. I feel so alone. Everyone in their twenties I know is living the good life and I'm stuck at home with a psychotic disease cause I MIGHT hurt myself. I can't be seen at the hospital cause of the stupid effigy taxes and new "health care plan" that the branch of hospital I go to was forced to shut down. I don't know what to do with my depression of being alone or the "third wheel" only Jesus keeps me alive as I read the bible. I've tried to make new friends at church but it's just not working. I feel like a failure for someone my age.

Feelings follow behavior.

All too often we let our emotions rule our lives, it is important to be aware of your own behavior as it can activate feelings not only in yourself but also in others. I always try to treat a person around me as I want to be treated which means I am able to control my feeling.  The question that we have to ask ourselves is, are we able to rule or control our emotions for that matter.  Females have high than males and their emotions can be effected by the smallest of things returning the biggest explosion on that smirky unhelpful shop assistant.

Every example that I've mentioned above relates to some variety of behavior change. Do feelings follow behavior or does behavior follow feeling? Your feelings are directly associated with your behavior  If you want to control your feelings you must also change your behavior.  You can control your thoughts and feelings if you will take my advice.

Our greatest strengths are our greatest weaknesses

Each and every human being is born with strength and weakness; however we are different when it comes to strength and weakness. Meaning that we often hear from people about one’s strengths and weakness! It is highly debatable but I do agree with this statement, strengths are strengths and they are always good but I don’t believe that the weakness we have is also good equally.

My greatest strength is that I am very honest and a self-starter. Now you might be thinking how on earth can someone be too honest, but the truth is it has got me into trouble plenty of times, I have no poker face so if someone asks me what my thoughts and opinions are on assignments I just explain everything and I ended up giving them my answers. Another of my greatest strengths and weaknesses is my ability to continuously speak out of my mind. Being honest to yourself and others is the best way.

Try a cliché

I'm bit puzzled about cliches.  In my opinion, there are great books written by South African writers and they are based on cliches. There’s no such thing as an original plot anymore, but that's ok. Cliches are most enjoyed if the writer is good with words, and some people even enjoy writing twists in the plot-lines that they weren't expecting. So, basically, my response is that if writers want to write about a cliché either post twists on twitter they have to be good in writing but if they are not good they have to practice because practice makes perfect. People use cliché to threaten, motivate, praise and to express their feelings. But because people get used to the words in a cliché they ignore the content and the meaning behind what is being said… Pay attention to small details and try listening to the message behind a cliche or try a cliche yourself.

THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM

Imagine that it’s a rainy day and that you are popping around to your friend’s home just for a quick visit. Your friend greets you warmly before you enter inside the house. On entering their family home you decide to take off your shoes and jacket and make your way through to the living room and everyone is looking at you. While everyone is looking at you and then you greet your friend’s parents briefly as they glance up from watching their favorite TV show and suddenly you notice that there’s sat on the sofa and that sat is an huge African elephant while you are still shocked, you see the friend of yours returns from the kitchen and hands you a glass of coke, tells you to sit down on the little room left on the sofa and asks you how your week has been. You are quite surprised because no one has mentioned anything about the huge animal in the room but begin to describe the ups and downs of your week at work.

Benni Mccarthy lost his cool

After last week incident Pirates should send Benni to the anger management course otherwise they will pay a heavy price as his anger seems to be uncontrollable and he wants to play Big Brother role where it is unnecessary. 

The referee had already punished Cale for the foul but as usual Benin's blood rushed to his head and wanted to cause unnecessary scene by pushing Cale. I expected an objective comment from Mark and Robert Marawa but they apportioned the blame to the referee instead of the instigator, Benni. They should have condemned Benni's behaviour instead of condoning it and blaming the referee.

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